Friday, December 31, 2010

Life was Zen in 2010

What did you do in 2010 that you'd never done before?
1. I went to counseling.

2. I rented a storage unit and filled the whole dang thing!
3. I filed an insurance claim for our water-damaged furniture.
4. I moved out of our first home together.
5. I paid off our truck.
6. I said goodbye to Tiny.
7. I applied - and was accepted - to grad school.

Did you keep your new year's resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
My resolution last year was to work out 120 days of the year...didn't happen. I did, however, keep track of every book I finished in 2010. I finished 32 books this year. Pretty good, I think! Next year I'll continue to keep track of the books I read. Other than that my only goal is to kick grad school's butt. I should be 3/4 of the way through my degree by this time next year so I have my work cut out for me in 2011!


What countries did you visit?

None. I kinda like America.

What would you like to have in 2011 that you lacked in 2010?
A sense of purpose.


What date(s) from 2010 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

1. October 30th -- the day I said goodbye to Brian.

2. November 4th -- the day I cleared housing and moved back to TX.
3. November 22nd -- Tiny's last day with us.

What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Fixing our marriage. Hands down.


What was your biggest failure?

Ignoring the problems in our marriage until it boiled over and couldn't be ignored anymore.


Did you suffer illness or injury?
Nothing really out of the ordinary...just my acne flaring up because I went off birth control and a caffeine sensitivity that  threw me out of whack for the last few weeks.

What was the best thing you bought?
My iPhone 4.


Where did most of your money go?
Student loans and truck payments...again. Same as last year.

What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Nothing really. Football games, maybe. Or Christmas.

What song(s) will always remind you of 2010?
1. Need You Now by Lady Antebellum

2. Just The Way You Are by Bruno Mars
3. Jar of Hearts by Christina Perri

Compared to this time last year, are you:
i. happier or sadder?
Sadder. I miss Brian. And Tiny.
ii. thinner or fatter?
Thinner.
iii. richer or poorer?
Money wise: Poorer. Only because I paid the truck off. Ask me again in a few months and the answer will be different.
Life wise: Richer. I have a better relationship with my husband and I feel like I've grown up a lot.

What do you wish you'd done more of?
Travel.


What do you wish you'd done less of?
Obsessively watch TV series on Netflix and/or Hulu.


Did you fall in love in 2010?
I think I fell in love with Brian all over again through our marital struggles. I'm thankful it wasn't the other way around.


How many one-night stands?
Never ever. ((I really should just delete this questions...the answer never changes.))

What was your favorite TV program?
I have a lot: Lost, Life Unexpected, Gossip Girl, Nikita, House, CSI, Friday Night Lights, Intervention, Hoarders, NCIS, NCIS: Los Angeles, Glee, The Vampire Diaries, Hawaii Five-0, Parenthood, Hellcats,  Bones, Blue Bloods, The Office, Community...I told you it was a lot.

Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
I really don't hate. There are a few people who annoy the crap out of me tho.


What was the best book(s) you read?
1. The Help by Kathryn Stockett

2. The Hunger Games trilogy by Suzanne Collins
3. The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown
4. Th1rteen R3asons Why by Jay Asher
5. Sarah's Key by Tatiana De Rosnay
6. Outlander by Diana Gabaldon

What were your greatest musical discoveries?
Bruno Mars. Love his CD.


What did you want and get?
To get into grad school.


What was your favorite film of this year?
Does a mini-series count? The Pillars of the Earth aired on Starz in early fall - fantastic! It's streaming on Netflix if you're interested.

What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I went out to eat at a chicken joint in my hometown and ate Coldstone ice cream cake. I turned 25.

What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Going on a big vacation and my high school making it past the 3rd round of the football playoffs. Ha.


What kept you sane?
Family. Always family.


Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
I have a crush on Chord Overstreet (Sam on Glee). I just think he's so cute! And Derek Jeter, of course. :)


Who did you miss?
Everyone I love most at one point or another.


Who was the best new person you met?
No new people this year.


Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2010:

1. Sometimes you have to ask for help and it's OK.
2. Moving is hard. Harder than you think.

Quote a song lyric that sums up your year:

Living without you

Living alone
This empty house seems so cold
Wanting to hold you
Wanting you near
How much I wanted you home
"Open Arms" by Journey


Today I don't feel like doing anything
I just wanna lay in my bed
Don't feel like picking up my phone
So leave a message at the tone
Cause today I swear I'm not doing anything
"The Lazy Song" by Bruno Mars




Life was Divine in 2009
Life was Great in 2008
Life was Heaven in 2007



Thursday, December 30, 2010

Looking Back: 2010

January

Brian was a groomsman in his sister's wedding.
I rescued the groom's wedding band from the dressing room mid-ceremony.

While we were home for my SIL's wedding, a pipe froze and burst in our laundry room.
This is the laundry room ceiling.

The entire first floor of our house flooded.
Our less-than-year-old living room furniture soaked up a bunch of water and started growing mold.


February

I made the best pulled BBQ pork with homemade BBQ sauce.
My mouth still waters thinking about it.

I put this shelf up on the bare wall in our half-bathroom downstairs.
I loved how it turned out.


March

Mom and Dad came to visit over Spring Break.
We visited a couple plantation homes.

And we walked along the river in Natchitoches, Louisiana.

My dad really wanted to try a meat pie.
Apparently this place also serves "delicious seafood soft serve".

Brian turned 23. We celebrated with this {homemade} cake.


April

Brian's parents visited. We went to the zoo in Alexandria, LA.

And saw this giant tortoise.

We took his parents to the bowling alley. Brian made funny faces.

We took Tiny on a number of walks behind our house.


May

This pretty sums up my tutoring/subbing experience:


June

I unearthed my old Mustang from the garage and gave her a good wash. Such a pretty car.

I was so excited to get my Eclipse toy in my BK happy meal!


July

I kissed a giant chicken at a restaurant back home.
Brian was back in LA training all month.


August

I started packing.

Brian got a surprise week of leave, so we went home.
We had a zoo date.

We made friends with this bear.

I turned 25 (eek!).

I went to the first high school football game of the season with my parents.


September

Weekend getaway #1: Lake Sam Rayburn, TX.

It was a bit of a hike to the water, but gorgeous nonetheless.

We excavated our wedding cake topper and dug in. No one got sick!

Weekend getaway #2: Toledo Bend Lake, TX.

My favorite picture of Tiny, ever!

How we spent our time: fishing, scrabbling, and word searching.

I attended Brian's deployment ceremony.

So handsome.


October

We had one more adventure at the Alexandria Zoo.


And we stayed up all night to say goodbye at 4AM.
(My favorite picture of Brian, ever!)


November

A lot happened in November...

I threw away a ton of stuff.

I packed more into our storage unit than I thought possible.

I said goodbye to our first home.

I hit the road heading back to TX.

I went to the last regular season high school football game in Midland. (We lost.)

I bundled up for the first playoff game at our home stadium. (We won.)

I wrote a big check to pay off our truck!

I went to the second playoff game in Lubbock. (We won!)

I said goodbye to the BEST dog in the world.

I walked a 5K in freezing wind with mom and brother on Thanksgiving morning.

We sent my brother back to NYC.

I went to the third playoff gave at Cowboys Stadium. (We lost.)



December

I picked up Tiny's urn from the vet's office.

I helped Dad put Christmas lights in the trees outside.

I laid in the sun by the pool on an 85 degree afternoon.

We welcomed Keith home.

We stuffed our faced at DQ on Christmas Eve Eve.

I opened a ton of presents on Christmas morning.


Here's to a wonderful 2011!